Happy Tuesday!

Happy Tuesday everyone! So many exciting new things to talk about! First and foremost is my biggest news....I recently received an offer from Denise Barone of the Barone Literary Agency of representation for my Fire and Ice novel.

(Here's the book trailer again, in case you haven't had a chance to view it!)

To say this was exciting does not even begin to touch how I was feeling. It is a wonderful match and I'm thrilled to be working with her. I'm excited about what this journey will bring....what else is possible? Books and Signings and Movies....oh my :)

I had the pleasure of talking with friends who are entertaining the possibility of starting their own business. The first step in making it happen it taking the first step! What's it going to take for you to make a move...one tiny step in the direction of your desires. Already living your dream....well then now is a great time to ask what else is possible? It's so thrilling to me to witness people embracing the possibility of have MORE in their life. More joy, more fun, more ease, more money, more love, more freedom, more of LIFE! How does it get better than that?

What are you reaching for this year? What steps have you taken to make it happen? They don't have to be big steps....and as the infamous Martin Luther King quotation goes, you don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step towards your dreams in faith.

Honestly YA: Six authors, One love.: Youuu Got What I Nee-eed, But You Say He's Just a Friend...

I read a great post this morning debating the issue of whether highschool guys and girls could be *just friends*. 

Honestly YA: Six authors, One love.: Youuu Got What I Nee-eed, But You Say He's Just a Friend...

Needless to say as a writer of YA lit, it led me back to my own highschool years, reminiscing about the boys I considered "friends" and those who considered me "friends" and those who I called "friend" when it was really something much more. I guess I'd have to land on yes, it is possible, even though most of those close friendships I had with guys eventually (sometimes even years later) developed into something... *more* than just friendship.
those years were such a tumultuous time and I loved ever rocky, dramatic, angst-ridden, heart-wrenching euphoric moment of it. Even if that wasn't the cause during, it's certainly how I feel when I reflect back. So how about you ever give those formative years some deep refection...your relationships with someone you were attracted to or someone you considered a friend but were secretly attracted to....or did you form true *just friend* friendships with the guys/girls in your life? I can certainly say my female friendships have stayed with me for a lifetime (maybe more) and I am still to this day eternally grateful to have met them.

So what are your thoughts on all of it? I know mine make me smile, sometimes roll my eyes and even slap my hands over my face in a fit of OMG embarrassment. But I wouldn't change a single moment of it!

The Essential 55: Rules to Live By at Any Age

This is a repost from the iGirls webiste. As a mother of a 12 year old son, aunt to 13 & 10 yr. old nieces and a 8 yr. old nephew, a writer of young adult fiction, designer of fashion dolls and a former educator of young children, I have very mixed emotions about the way children are marketed to in our society. They seem to be growing up younger and the media and advertising play into this. But is this a good thing, and a normal part of evolution and change... or a bad thing, a contrived and forced stifling of their innocence and childhood... or perhaps a mix of the two? My feelings lean more towards the second, especially after watching this CBC documentary entitled Sext Up Kids: http://www.cbc.ca/video/#/Shows/Doc_Zone/1242299559/ID=2201416792
(Description: The powder keg that is porn culture has exploded in the lives of North American children. Sext up KIDS reveals how our hyper-sexualized culture has hijacked childhood and what parents and educators are doing to fight back.)

At any rate, it led me to this post on Seleema Noon's iGirls website (a group of smart and current professionals with a focus on providing safe, inclusive and practical information about modern day sexual health to children, teens and parents) which I think is marvelous so I'm reposting it here with due credits. Now I'm taking a writing break to head out to find this book: The Essential 55: An Award-Winning Educator’s Rules for Discovering the Successful Student in Every Child.

The Essential 55: Rules to Live By at Any Age

Wednesday, 18 January, 2012 22:53

The Essential 55: Rules to Live By at Any Age

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Over the winter break I was looking through some books in my office and came across one of my all time favorites. It’s called The Essential 55: An Award-Winning Educator’s Rules for Discovering the Successful Student in Every Child.  While written a number of years ago, it offers timeless insight for parents and others working with children.  Author Ron Clark, voted Disney’s Teacher of the Year, was confronted with a huge challenge when he found that his 5^th grade students for the year had little interest in learning and were lacking in guidance.  He quickly realized they needed to learn some basic rules.  So, Clark compiled a list of 55 lessons to teach his students that cover all aspects of life, from human interactions and knowing how to say thank you to telephone skills and cafeteria manners.  Those 55 lessons evolved into what Clark calls The Essential 55—guidelines for living and interacting with others.
Here are some sample rules:
Rule #1 Make eye contact.
Rule #6 If you are asked a question in conversation, ask a question in return.
Rule #7 Cover your mouth when you cough and say excuse me.
Rule #9 Always say thank you when you are given something.
Rule #15 Do not ask for a reward.
Rule #24 Keep yourself and bathrooms clean and germ-free.
Rule #25 Greet visitors and make them feel welcome.
Rule #30 After dining in the cafeteria or elsewhere, be responsible for your trash.
Rule #31 In a hotel room, leave a tip for the hotel workers who clean your room.
Rule #33 When meeting new people, shake hands and repeat their names.
Rule #35 If someone close to you drops something and you are close to it, pick it  up.
Rule #41 At home, answer your phone in a polite and appropriate manner.
Rule #43 On escalators, stand to the right, walk to the left.
Rule #49 Stand up for what you believe in.
Rule #51 Live life so that you will have no regrets.
Rule #55 Be the best person that you can be.
After teaching The Essential 55, Ron Clark saw his 5^th grade students who once struggled to read at the 3^rd grade level now reading at the 6^th grade level.  Even more, they were gaining crucial self-respect and respect for others. There’s nothing fancy about these rules—they’re pretty basic.  What a nice reminder though, that some basic guidelines (many are ones that my parents gave me!) can have such a meaningful impact on kids’ lives.